On Secrecy In Relationships: Don't be a secret. If they can't mention you publicly, they shouldn't be able to have you privately. If you're a secret, please know that you're probably not the only one. Another great Tony A. Gaskins quote.
Relationships are meant to be shown off, to show how happy you are, to tell those guys/girls, im in a relationship with someone i love so please back off. If you keep the relationship a secret, that is selfish and youre asking for the wrong kind of attention. It shows you only care about yourself and how many likes your "selfie" can get. Stop acting single, if youre in a relationship make it known.