This is what my ex is doing now. My therapist has told me not to engage in his attempts to trigger a response from me because he will be the one who would go to the police and have a restraining order put on me, saying that I am harassing him.
Omg this is so true. He remains calm and fooling everyone. You can only do so much to tell your story. These double life people are so seasoned, they are fooling everyone, while the victim looks like the crazy one. So sad.