No emotional maturity. No matter how hard you try, you can never fix a narcissist because they do not believe anything is wrong with them. Surviving a relationship with a narcissistic sociopath.
Stages of Healing from a Toxic Relationship with a Narcissist: Truth of Narcissistic Abuse Recovery http://queenbeeing.com/stages-of-healing-from-a-toxic-relationship-with-a-narcissist-truth-of-narcissistic-abuse-recovery/
There is no reality with any relationship with a Narcissist because there is no REAL with a Narcissist – BUT there is a destructive and manipulative creature that can and will debilitate your heart and mind!