Red Flag #10. You find yourself playing detective. It’s never happened in any other relationship, but suddenly you’re scrolling back years on their Facebook page and albums. Same with their ex. You’re seeking answers to a feeling you can’t quite explain. Yuk
Red Flag #15. Cannot put themselves in your shoes, or anyone else’s for that matter. You find yourself desperately trying to explain how they might feel if you were treating them this way, and they just stare at you blankly.
This! #Preach It's even more difficult to recognize red flags when you've grown up in toxic environments where what most people consider red flags are your norm. There were a couple things that were the "aha" moments for me. Today for some reason I'm unusually grateful for my own personal journey. I was very lucky that I wasn't any more intertwined in my past relationship because I can't even imagine how much more difficult it would be to leave when there are children involved. Not only…
my stomach churns as i read this. my mother and ex friend did many of these things to me all the time. now i'm beginning to suspect that yet another one of my friends is a narc... what am i? a narc magnet? why can't i have people who will just accept me as i am and be a real friend to me?
21 People Confess Their Biggest Relationship Red Flags