"No relationship, no children, no nothing is going to make you a happy person. Every day you have to choose to find and cultivate your own happiness. You have to take responsibility for your own happiness. That took me until I was about 31 to know. It wasn't easy to realize, Oh wait, I am purely responsible"
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