*raises hand tentatively* I think that's why his relationship with Natasha works so well, because she didn't choose either. She was taken from her home (or whatever, her origin's kinda all over the place) and forged into the Widow like Bucky was the Soldier. He, granted, chose nothing at all, and is there from entire circumstance. Natasha made a few choices, like going with Clint, becoming an Avenger, helping reveal HYDRA. But she didn't choose to become the Widow.
Selena, ex Marine, highly dangerous, rogue agent. She is sent to kidnap your character, and when they open their door in the middle of the night, they see this. Why was she ordered to kidnap them? By whom? @icfranktoth