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Red Flag #27. Gaslighting. Blatantly denies their own manipulative behavior and ignores evidence when confronted with it. They will become angry if you attempt to disprove their delusions with facts.

Red Flag #13. You are the only one who sees their true colors. They use shallow praise and gifts (often over social networking). Shallow relationships with people they don't know create the perfect group of flatterers and followers to excuse their behavior. The internet is a Psychopath's playground.

Red Flag #30. Your feelings. After a run-in with a psychopath, you will feel insane, exhausted, drained, shocked, suicidal, and empty. You will tear apart your entire life—spending money, ending friendships, and searching for some sort of reason behind it all.

It took me a long time to realize he was a liar because he disclosed so much...even bad things. But there were so many lies of omission and reweaving of partial truths. He is a master of deception

Red Flag #15. Cannot put themselves in your shoes, or anyone else’s for that matter. You find yourself desperately trying to explain how they might feel if you were treating them this way, and they just stare at you blankly.

Red Flag #10. You find yourself playing detective. It’s never happened in any other relationship, but suddenly you’re scrolling back years on their Facebook page and albums. Same with their ex. You’re seeking answers to a feeling you can’t quite explain. Yuk