I like being alone. I have control over my own shit. Therefore in order to win me over your presence has to feel better than my solitude. You're not competing with another person, you're competing with my comfort zones.
I fought for a long time despite all of those things. I gave up and then he swore he changed and begged me back. He didn't change. He just wanted me back to control me more. Lesson learned. Now I will do what is best for me.
I get so many messages from women who are single that don't know how just embrace their singleness. The truth is, if you can't be happy alone you won't be happy when you're not single. One of the most empowering things I did, was go get coffee alone, shop alone, and go on trips alone. You grow from these experiences and you will truly understand who you are as an individual. You'll never have to struggle with getting lost in a relationship if you embrace your own company.
Positive Quote: To be honest with you, I don't have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart, a heart that´s aching to see you smile again.