Whether it’s a funny maid of honor toast or a heart-warming matron of honor toast, when writing a maid of honor speech, you can be funny, you can be witty or you can be creative about it. Your maid of honor speech doesn’t have to be long though. Make your wedding speech enthusiastic and supportive. Speak from your heart. If you are fun loving personality then you can throw some funny jokes in your speech but always make sure that you don’t embarrass someone.