And I've pretty much found this to be true. I like listening to people talk. I like seeing the light in someone's eyes when they really care about something. I like talking too, don't get me wrong, but nothing beats watching the eyes of people when they speak. In that silence, if you really listen instead of planning what to say next (pet peeve), you can hear so very much more than what they say. ~ Lauren M. I couldn't have said it better myself
You can talk about me, trash my relationship, belittle my character, try to control me, try to ruin my friendships and spread lie upon lie until you're blue in the face. I'm secure in my happiness and my satisfaction with my life. You're vapor. You.dont.matter.