I don't agree. You should just give back without even thinking about it because you want to. Without desire there are no dreams or goals..if you don't already know what you can offer, you probably can't offer much at all..
We both must grow in our own separate lives as individuals... That doesnt mean we EVER have to grow apart as a couple. 1, 5, and even 10 years from now, we will look back at this time as the turning point in our relationship where we decided that WE were WORTH THE FIGHT!! I will NEVER give up on this LOVE and I promise you that WE will find a way for BOTH of US to grow SEPARATELY - TOGETHER!! I LOVE YOU H2O!!