People who criticize and put others down are judgmental and hypocrites. People who try to point out your flaws or weaknesses in a very negative way are insecure and they put others down to lift themselves up and feel better. The things they criticize you for, are really their own weaknesses. They "mirror" or project their own insecurities onto others. Confident people don't go around trying to hurt others. They lift them up.....
this describes an insecure person or a narcissist or both. They are well known for exploiting other peoples weaknesses and insecurities and then playing on their emotions after they've hurt someone. They lack empathy, are rude, insensitive and are always looking for reasons to put others down, as if they are perfect themselves.
People who think they are perfect and go around putting others down, belittling them, trying to point out weaknesses and using it in a very negative way are narcissistic. It takes a HUGE EGO to knock someone else down when and hurt them when you yourself are full of flaws. Leave people alone. What is the point of going out and purposely hurting others other than to get your ego boost. Typical narcissistic behavior.
Self-love is not the same as arrogance or narcissism. In fact those who act as if they are better than others are often the ones lacking in self-love. Remember: lifting yourself up should never involve putting others down.
In the same way, self harm is not just cutting, burning or hitting. It's overspending so that you no longer have the money to spend on things you need, it's isolating yourself because it's better that way than to bring others down, it's not eating because food intake is one thing you can control. Self harm is everything you do even though it harms you
Always tried to be there for you and I will doesn't take your love for granted who treat you good not about them all the time it's about you two together being happy sharing your life not putting each other down that a REAL soulmate