Princess Reward Chart.... now that's royal! every time your daughter is nice and does something helpfull give her a heart sticker over the outlines. when she reaches the castle you go for lunch or an ice cream :)
9 Ways to Make [Children] Listen: "Let’s face it, asking kids to do something over and over again drives us all nuts. [...] Have faith, even the most persistent non-listener can change! Just remember, lay down the basic ground rules and be consistent – much more effective than shouting and yelling plus you'll be a GREAT role model!"