I totally get this. I think negative all the time so if something that could happen, did happen then I will be prepared for it, although I wouldn't be prepared for it, cos when it happens you don't know how your going to handle it. I always book Friday the 13th & Halloween off work.
"So how do people with autism see the world, exactly? We, and only we, can ever know the answer to that one! Sometimes I actually pity you for not being able to see the beauty of the world in the same way we do. Really, our vision of the world can be incredible, just incredible." Naoki Higashida (pg. 59)
@askamillionaire posted this earlier and I had to share as it's so right. Before you go attacking someone because they disagree with you maybe take a step back and try to see the situation from their perspective.