Wear your stripes with pride. You know you are doing your best. Don't make it worse on yourself. Relieve others of sadness and loneliness. They'll remember you, and karma will help you. It's not a requirement to be lonely if you do this, but if that happens, so be it. I'd rather be lonely and remember who I helped than surrounded by people who don't give a crap about me

Wear your stripes with pride. You know you are doing your best. Don't make it worse on yourself. Relieve others of sadness and loneliness. They'll remember you, and karma will help you. It's not a requirement to be lonely if you do this, but if that happens, so be it. I'd rather be lonely and remember who I helped than surrounded by people who don't give a crap about me

Stop saying yes to everything and everyone. Stop agreeing with people just so you don't upset them.  You're not a pushover. You were not put on this Earth to be stressed and miserable so others can be relaxed and happy (at your expense).  Start protecting your time and your happiness. If others can't handle it, show them the door. Kick them out of your life and don't look back.

Stop saying yes to everything and everyone. Stop agreeing with people just so you don't upset them. You're not a pushover. You were not put on this Earth to be stressed and miserable so others can be relaxed and happy (at your expense). Start protecting your time and your happiness. If others can't handle it, show them the door. Kick them out of your life and don't look back.

i always compare myself now to before, but before i was kinda a people pleaser and i've stopped since last year so yay

i always compare myself now to before, but before i was kinda a people pleaser and i've stopped since last year so yay

Stress, anxiety, and depression are caused when we are living to please others. -Paulo Coelho

Stress, anxiety, and depression are caused when we are living to please others. -Paulo Coelho

Must Read!: How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Toxic People | Brittney Moses

How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Toxic People

Must Read!: How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Toxic People | Brittney Moses

Signs You Are a People Pleaser #pleaser #boundaries #codependency

Nice Guy's Guide to Setting Boundaries with your Ex

When someone disrespects you, beware the impulse to win their respect. For respect is not a valuation of your worth but a signal of their character.

When someone disrespects you, beware the impulse to win their respect. For respect is not a valuation of your worth but a signal of their character.

12 Signs that You're a People Pleaser by Sharon Martin, LCSW #peoplepleasing #codependency #boundaries

12 Signs That You’re A People Pleaser

12 Signs that You're a People Pleaser by Sharon Martin, LCSW #peoplepleasing #codependency #boundaries

some people really need to learn this. Don't agree to help out then change your mind. Every single time.

some people really need to learn this. Don't agree to help out then change your mind. Every single time.

The people in our life can support us or sabotage us in our healthy lifestyle pursuits, however, it is OUR behavior as a people pleaser that is the threat, not our loved ones.

The people in our life can support us or sabotage us in our healthy lifestyle pursuits, however, it is OUR behavior as a people pleaser that is the threat, not our loved ones.

You've gotta get real, your peace and happiness trumps their judging and wishing. Take care of you.

You've gotta get real, your peace and happiness trumps their judging and wishing. Take care of you.

Sometimes I regret being nice, apologizing when I didn't do anything wrong, and for making unworthy people a priority in my life.

Sometimes I regret being nice, apologizing when I didn't do anything wrong, and for making unworthy people a priority in my life.

A challenge to people pleasers... find an opportunity to practice saying this complete sentence: "No."

A challenge to people pleasers... find an opportunity to practice saying this complete sentence: "No."

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