Don't judge! Sometimes in life we have no choice, I have to get up in the morning I have to take care o the children, play with them, feed them and clothe them. I also have to earn a living. Sometimes I have no choice, I have to mow that lawn. I'm still ill, I still struggle and I'm still fighting to recover.
We are only allowed to use a certaint amount of "spoons" each day. It's hard to know which activity or task will makes us feel more tired or exhausted mentally and physically. When battling a chronic, invisible illness these are questions we have to ask ourselves. It might seem strange, but it's our reality.