I am not sure whether this quote is true of me because I am a female, or because of who I am. I do shut down for a moment when I am extremely hurt because I internally start to wonder if the person harmed me in that way because I am a woman, or because I am not good enough, or both. Mostly, this reaction is pretty constant with my identity.
''I just want to feel safe with someone...to not always be wondering how he feels about me, to not always be waiting for him to walk away, to not always be wishing that he'd love me back.I need to be able to trust that a man is there fro me for the right reasons, because he cares enough to be there.'' source: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
That's easier said than done sometimes. I have an insane amount of chatter going on. "I'm not good enough", "I don't deserve ....*insert whatever*", "I'm an Asshole" omg soul DON'T make me do healing for the third time today!
Love is a two way street and if the person you love is not loving you back the same way it’s such a crappy feeling. But by being stronger and not allowing them to walk all over you they will respect you more. So one always does love more most times in most relationships but they have to love you enough to show you that they do.
Twice was enough for me in my life. Today, things are much different because I did it God's way, not my own. Thankful <3 I pray for those whose hearts are longing for His comfort, and His love that will never leave!
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Much longer away, and it will. I am doing my best. Are we being only results oriented? I don't do sadism when it comes to my welfare anymore than is accidentally occurring. Enough. Let's move on already. I plan to do 'business' decisions this afternoon. Don't keep me hanging, I refuse to live like Job.
Don't ever let anyone make you feel you didn't love them enough. Don't ever allow anyone to abandon you out of their own fear of abandonment. Don't ever fight for someone who isn't willing to fight for you. Allowing someone the space in your dynamic to heal is different than allowing their suppressed resentment and unhealed wounds to project onto you - do not approve of any of these behaviors. Know your worth, know when you tried, know when you have to continue to move forward regardless…