Never, yes and neither are you. Anyway its not about 'importance' its about deserving. Why should i keep being nice to a guy who only ever abuses me, rarely replies, and just mocks and ridicules me, tells me not to take anything seriouosly, and basically shows me no compassion ever but expects it by the bucket load in return? Why? Oh i ow, coz i should be his dirty rag, his doormat, his 'broken' woman. Well FUCK YOU SHAYLER NAZI CREEP, NO.
Stop telling people more than they need to know. & with certain 'groups' of people, if I tell someone something, I presume they will tell others (even if I ask them not to), so I'm very careful w/ whom I say anything to & believe it will be repeated... knowing at various points who repeats what information, which is how, I either continue talking to you, just surface chat or a quick hello