STOP invalidating! Just because YOU can't relate or understand does NOT negate what they feel. If you're seeking to confute any perspective that differs from your own, you're only proving how ignorant you really are.
i don't particularly care for the new kadampa movement because of their avid displays of hatred in many regards and how they have treated their members (ex members) but, i wish they would actually practice what they preach. either way...this is nice.