A narcissist mother is emotionally immature, the child has to take care of her. The needs of the narcissist mother come first and are like the needs of a hungry baby bird. "Feed me, feed me" the narcissist mother cries to its child, instead of caring for its child's needs, the mother is like a vampire feeding on the child.
I was in one for a little less than a year. He was great at first but his true colors came out. Every time we fought he would say the most hurtful things. He has used what I have told him in confidence against me, things I am not comfortable about. He told me I faked my depression and my anxiety attacks. He is a liar and a manipulator, he will put a smile on and act like he is the best human being but when the doors are closed and no one else is arround he is completely different.
Dont ya just love lectures about family from people who talk crap about their own family members behind their back...WoW I didnt know that was how you were suposed to be a loving family member...my bad, I was raised to believe I was supossed to be loyal,loving and not to stab a knife in their backs...just f*c*k*i*n* saying!!!...heres a bit of advice for you sweetheart...PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH!!!!!!