I have personally been told these words. Unfortunately with my job I have been with others as they have experienced this as well. There are no words to explain the pain that is felt as you hear the words spoken that your child is gone, and that reality sinks in.
I'm reminded of you everyday. Today your papi mentioned you, and my heart broke all over again. In the midst of everyone in my family having baby girls it gets even harder because I know that's what you would have been. The pregnancy symptoms were different from your brothers, and then I lost you, it's not fair.