I just want to add that gender preferences are a thing with pansexuals as well. I'm pansexual and I generally find myself being attracted to girls more often than any other gender. So it's not a complete disregard for gender.
Just remember that the vast majority of violence against women AND MEN is perpetuated by men, but abusing someone NO MATTER YOUR GENDER is not okay, and it's DEFINITELY not okay for WOMEN to abuse men either. It is abuse.
When I told a male professor I enjoyed statistics and he said "You're kne of the weird ones, women don't generally like statistics." Women can like whatever the fuck they want and it doesn't have to be weird.