......whatever the hell 'feminine' means.... Why shouldn't he show different aspects of himself? Just let them be authentic and accept them for who they are and not what they are socially constructed to be.
Yes! Please stop. Think of the message you're sending these impressionable young girls...you're teaching them at an early age that "boys" being mean to you means they like you. Then parents wonder why their daughters grow up and end up in abusive relationships whether it be mentally, emotionally or physically abusive or all of the above. Well because genius you set that foundation up at an early age. Duh.