I used to anyways, now I know for sure, you just lie to everyone. Show whichever face you feel like at the time. I really do pity her. Here she thinks she won and has this great guy, but you have been lying to her the most.
Keeping your spouse at the top of your list, above your parents, is vital to the success of your marriage. That does not mean you don’t love and honor your parents. It just means your spouse comes first.