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Especially not someone you hurt with lies, betrayal and infidelity, the mother of your children, who did nothing but give to you and who did everything she could to do all the right things since then.


Manipulative people latch on to empathetic targets and exploit their innate qualities. They find people who are easy-going, gentle and kind - who avoid conflict and seek to make others happy. The Problem: They reciprocate none of these things. Instead, they feel entitled to your constant forgiveness and self-blame. If you set boundaries or say no, you will be punished for reacting to their abuse. Toxic people constantly look to blame the victim.


Controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. They don't ask themselves if the problem is them.. They always say the problem is someone else.


Damn this is true. I know someone who is always trying to turn their problems around on me and make me seem like I'm the one keeping them from getting better. It's bullshit


Good people may have bad moments, but the good always comes out. No one is all good or all bad, but we do choose which side to feed every day and what we decide, becomes who we are.