Damn Straight...that sweet, kind, harmless...genuine, good hearted, mistreated, misunderstood...and pitiful little confused chippy...was exactly what I said...a manipulative, conniving, lying, fake little psychopath...that would do/say/be anything to get her way...
Manipulative people latch on to empathetic targets and exploit their innate qualities. They find people who are easy-going, gentle and kind - who avoid conflict and seek to make others happy. The Problem: They reciprocate none of these things. Instead, they feel entitled to your constant forgiveness and self-blame. If you set boundaries or say no, you will be punished for reacting to their abuse. Toxic people constantly look to blame the victim.
Powerful. You lie to me you lie to your family because they don't know me I'm a big secret yet I'm tripping in your mind because I believed your bullshit. Maybe I should reveal myself, what's the worst case you end it? Well I really don't have got anyway despite you said saying you love me, prove it for once I have the whole time.
Avoid people who: 1. Mess with your head. 2. Intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. 3. Expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. 4. Can't and won't apologise sincerely. 5. Act like the victim when confronted with their abusive behaviour.