"My Dear Baby Love, I will not give up on us ever; I will persevere & adjust to anything at all. I KNOW YOU LOVE ME MORE THAN YOU HAVE EVER LOVED ANOTHER! I understand all the mistakes and horrible things I am responsible for. I have learned and I will prove it to you.
Not a surprise to him, since he told your parents and regardless of whether you and your family attend matters not...we may just elope, why deal with hateful, disrespectful fake family(we both can do without that). We are plenty happy without the drama ya'll provide!