Yes! Trying to change people is pointless and insulting. Don't get sucked into negative vortex Lol. Be bubbly, be happy be loud be fun and enjoy this short life! Find people who love like you do! And find people who aren't trying to change you!
It's time for me to have a nice life of my own, don't you think? That means I can't be part of your nice life anymore - in fact, I've never been part of it! I'm so done with your conditional love - that's not love. So have a nice life, and I'll have mine!