10 Things you Must Give Up to Move Forward: Letting the opinions of others control your life, The shame of past failures, Being indecisive about what you want, Procastinating on the goals that matter to you, Choosing to do nothing, Your need to be right, Running from problems that should be fixed, Making excuses rather than decisions, Overlooking the positive points in your life, and Not appreciating the present moment.
A good way to put in perspective what's missing or holding you back in life. By addressing each of these sectors - you can score where you are now, identify your goals & where you want to be. Then develop an action plan to get you there. Its always good to talk this through with someone you trust.