Femininity is inherently oppressive, no matter how media and mainstream liberal feminism attempt to construct it as empowering. Changing how we perceive our oppression doesn't make it a positive thing.
The Man-Cave and heteropatriarchy - an interesting discussion. What makes it a 'man-cave'? I like drinking, sports, cars and girls - as a woman, can I have a man-cave? As for the ball and chain trope, literally thousands of people are forced into arranged marriages that actually cause the end of their lives, so be thankful you can choose.
This is good. Written by a transman. How to disrupt Liberal Feminism ( and help women see it hates people with vaginas). https://theradicalpenblog.wordpress.com/2017/07/21/how-to-disrupt-liberal-feminism-and-help-women-see-it-hates-people-with-vaginas/
It's almost as if it has nothing to do with babies and everything to do with controlling women's bodies. Huh.