I'm sorry, but i just realized that aragorn was also forbidden by elrond from seeing arwen until he became king, but then they met in lothlorien one day and they pledge their love for each other and all of this is ...
"It is not the strength of the body that counts, but the strength of the spirit." JRR Tolkien
still round the corner there may wait a new road or a secret gate and though i oft have passed them by a day will come at last when i shall take the hidden paths that run west of the moon, east of the sun. - j.r.r. tolkien