Create first a good habit, next push on to create a new good lifestyle. It takes 21 days to break or change a habit. Once you get to 90 days - you are very unlikely to return to the old habit - hence creating a new Lifestyle.
People don't naturally think outside the box. Big picture is God's picture. It takes time to turn a big ship around. I can not wait to watch Him begin to work! It is not at all what I thought it might be which is even more awesome. Love comes in all different forms. He had to show me to think different first.