The original quote I saw was: “Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks through our expectations.” Sounds enlightened? New-agey-consciously-correct? Right? But I wholeheartedly disagree with this language. And it’s at the root of most of the confusion within healthy, or rather unhealthy, relationship dynamics.
this is me, i could talk, but when i get that feeling around certain people, i keep my mouth shut - it's like instinct that they just want to gossip and know everything. that's not who i want to be around. be around the people that talk good, do good and grow good. if i feel that ain't you, you won't be getting my words.