People who have been single for too long are the hardest to love. They have become so used to being single, independent and self-sufficient that it takes something extraordinary to convince them that they need you in their life.
This is me. Finally. It's not about being independent or not having someone to share love with. It's not about trying to find your other "half" to make you whole. You are already whole. And you don't need to be with anyone to see that. Be happy with who your are now.