People use use children as weapons to hurt others are emotionally immature. The only valid and legitimate reason for any kind of alienation is if the person is being abusive to the child or the childs life is being endangered. Any sort of anger or disagre
A grown adult with self respect should never have to be talking or in relationships with someone with significant other. Showing disrespect is not only immature, but is a common trait of narcissism. Never tolerate those who are disrespectful.