I have a girlfriend that cares enough to sit with me like this when I an hurting over something.I love her for that!!!!!!She is a one in a million type of friend.We have been friends for over 40 years.
I wish stuff like this would happen to me when I get misgendered. Sadly, most of my friends won't use my pronouns (they forget and I'm too nervous to correct them.) Only two people (my best friend and my ex-girlfriend who I'm still good friends with) actually use my chosen name and pronouns. I love those two to death.