It's always a positive thing to give people the chance but I've recently learned to go with my gut feeling about some people. Some just like to make you feel bad for no reason other than the fact that they suck. The sooner you remove yourself from that situation the better !!
Despite your silence, I know somewhat, you still do.. Maybe you're scared to tell me.. And I know you don't want your partner to know.. And that's ok.. Even if you don't, I care about you always still..