Inner peace begins the moment you take a deep breath and choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions. -- read: http://www.marcandangel.com/2015/06/28/7-little-habits-that-stole-your-happiness-yesterday/
but you know what? It was never about someone else. I always asked because I said I wouldn't compete, I would leave and not interfere. It was really more about hiding them and dishonesty, and not even enough respect to say what was going on even with all the chances. The person being controlled was ME, not you. You were trying to control me through fear of you leaving if I said anything. Its how you toy with men, which you seem to hate so much, even the one that genuinely cared.