After two+ years, I've finally realized this. It's a shame that the same person who freaked out when it happened to them, has done the same thing. What's one hour a month to see an old friend or three seconds to respond to a text message.
So spot on ... I never knew or understood the term mind fuck until I began to heal from narcissistic abuse.
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