Examples of how we react vs. respond to our kids

Do You React or Respond to Your Kids?

Though this is for parents, it's a terrific example of reacting versus responding and what it means to be mindful of our interactions with others.

Maybe people should find better things to do than shoving their opinions in people's faces trying to piss then off

An insult which sends us in tailspin triggers our Ego because we were insulted that way as a young child. Our Ego then reacts by seizing control of our reactions and making us feel the way we felt then. The way we react is called a defense mechanism;

I will say nothing more about you or to you, you are undeniably mentally unstable. I'm just going to sit back and continue to watch the train wreck in action. like this summer! Pure satisfaction to know you are so bothered by me and I don't even have to say/do anything. Idk why you're so mad, you're mad at the wrong person, but it's easier to hate me than to hate yourself. Hope you can eventually move on... until then, I know you'll be thinking of me! -J

Wisdom Quotations . . Top 16 Wise Quotes

People do or say things to get a reaction from you.if it's for them to see a negative reaction, don't give them the satisfaction! No reaction is the best satisfaction for yourself!

My only regret is reading this in class then laughing like and “idjit” then my teacher and classmates look at me like on stupid and honestly their right.....

<<my favorite is how the second girl said lucifer help me

I love kitchen chemistry... it is just important to teach kids that the matter isn't changing phase but rather reacting.

Science Matters: States of Matter. Oobleck, Non-Newtonian fluid! Fun experiment for learning solids and liquids

Moms tend to have an ideal in their heads of how they are going to mother and how their children are going to respond. What do you do when that idea doesn't match up to reality? Do you get mad, yell, nag, etc? Or do you offer understanding and love? There IS a difference between controlling our children and guiding our children to make good choices.

What's Wrong With Controlling Our Children?

Moms tend to have an ideal in their heads of how they are going to mother and how their children are going to respond. What do you do when that idea doesn't match up to reality? Do you get mad, yell, nag, etc? Or do you offer understanding and love?

The best response to a narc is no response! If you must respond, show no emotion... This can be very difficult, but it will deprive him of what he wants most... A narcissistic payoff from your reaction/response.

0 (Bits of Truth)

I NEED to remember this. They will never see my reaction to their bullshit again! I closed the door and will never open it for them again

It is not necessary to react to everything you notice. #AnIotaofTruth

I need to remember this! Perfect poster for a classroom wall. Perfect reminder to students and self!

How we respond or react is going to play a very important role in everyone's life. Let's do the perfect will of God and lead them in the direction of Christ.

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Funny pictures about Always Be Kind. Oh, and cool pics about Always Be Kind. Also, Always Be Kind photos.

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