no one really starts out kind all we know how to do at first is want. we want food, we want attention. it's a natural survival instinct, i guess. but kindness is something that we all have to learn as we go. it's something that grows and develops over time. the way out bodies do. fruits basket
Fruits Basket - Tohru Honda, envy, metaphor for seeing the goodness in others but not yourself. I remmber that metaphor well, although its been over 10 years since i watched the anime. It really changed the way i perceive others.