do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing. Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.
Do not give your past the power to define your future . also don't let people of your past define your future, etc.
That's the lovely thing about forgiveness, it can transform you
Inhale the future, exhale the past. Just breathe.