My new years reso, to be myself everywhere I go. not just with fam and close friends. But with people that surround me at church. letting go of unnecessary insecurities of not being liked or accepted. Im already loved and accepted by God.
feel content: nobody gets everything they want. there will always be something. new problems arise. instead of striving for perfection, strive for contentedness. find a way to be happy with what you already have and youll always have exactly what you need.
When you start to recovering from narcissist abuse, you will change. You might freak everyone out. People who are used to the "old you" may be caught off guard. It allows you to set up boundaries and let others hold their own pain and anxiety instead of you taking it on for them. You become more assertive and confident. Allow this to happen. The dust will settle and everyone will adjust.
Harry and Narcissa --> yessssss and then Draco has to get used to how Narcissa's Harry's new aunt/ resolved to be in Teddy's life too!