I don't tell people what to do or how to behave because i know they'll figure it out for themselves anyway. My morals are mine and I don't expect them to be shared by others. I just expect that others should take responsibility for what they do. I've been dragged in on yet another scenario involving someone who refuses to take responsibility for not just their actions, but their entire life., this time it's serious and there is a chance someone else's life will be destroyed.
I said this to the guy I dated before my husband. He said he thought he might be involved with someone else. I told him to to figure it out and leave me out of it. It worked out for me, but he's still single.