The thing about comparison is that it doesn’t just leave it’s victims feeling insecure and unworthy, it lets fear, shame, and a whole lotta anxiety have one massive party in our hearts and minds. Which I know we’d all agree, isn’t cool and definitely isn’t God’s best for us. // new blog about my journey of overcoming comparison is on my blog, I hope it speaks life & gives you power to give comparison the boot! Shortened link on my profile - mysurrenderedheart.com
it sure does begin in our minds..and not only for addictions... you can also include insecurities, low self esteem and trust issues ... thats a big one it affeced my relationship with the most beautiful woman in the world...and please i didn't say any of
People are always going to talk. So let them talk. And you know what when someone judges another person it's because they are trying to make themselves feel better. About their own insecurities. As simple as that....
Yes. We do. When I learned this lesson...really, truly learned this lesson...so much anger, fear, insecurity and pain melted away from me. Too often we forget that our place of perception is only that...our place. We place judgement on the perceived motives of others based on where we are, not on them. Open your heart, your eyes, your mind...see what is truly there. And for yourself, try to present your feelings for others in the language they can understand, but also help them learn…
Quote on borderline: It doesn’t matter how many times a person tells me they like me. I always think they can change their mind instantly. Always with the fear of rejection. I know it may not be a reality, but it feels very real. -Ana Landa www.HealthyPlace.com
Yes, I stay up late at night just thinking about different ways we could still be together and how one decision can change everything, but I'm getting better. I don't spend hours thinking about you, I spend a mere ten minutes deciding if your someone I should waste my night thoughts about. Everytime it's a no, but I do it anyways. I've tried being friends or even aquatints with you, but you always have an excuse. No more thoughts should run through my brain tonight
Be bold yes - but when u live in a town where people feel it's their right to try and break u - Esp with love - even pretending their single to get you to look like a cheater - ..... love is sacred and will not be given freely. But I do thank people for their insecurities as this has made me the strongest version of myself I have ever felt!