Words taken straight from my heart. And the sad truth is...I used to always say I was afraid of commitment to ease the pain of telling someone no.. to make them think the problem was me and not them.

Words taken straight from my heart. And the sad truth is...I used to always say I was afraid of commitment to ease the pain of telling someone no.. to make them think the problem was me and not them.

I fear commitment with the wrong person, i was married to a narcissist once, so wasting time, yes is a big issue for me

I fear commitment with the wrong person, i was married to a narcissist once, so wasting time, yes is a big issue for me

Identifying and Overcoming the Fear of Commitment: There was an interesting response to my post on Monday regarding the problem with overcommitment. Many identified with being a overcommitter. The interesting response was the crowd that classified themselves as having a problem with commitment in general. This fear of commitment seemed to span the breadth of relationships, careers, and even hairstyles. Ironically, I used to be overtly cautious and not commit until absolutely necessary.

Identifying and Overcoming the Fear of Commitment: There was an interesting response to my post on Monday regarding the problem with overcommitment. Many identified with being a overcommitter. The interesting response was the crowd that classified themselves as having a problem with commitment in general. This fear of commitment seemed to span the breadth of relationships, careers, and even hairstyles. Ironically, I used to be overtly cautious and not commit until absolutely necessary.

Whenever I have to explain this to someone they just assume I have commitment issues, they don't understand it's a genuine fear. I can't even bring myself to say the words 'love' out loud, it makes me feel so exposed even though the walls are closing in

Whenever I have to explain this to someone they just assume I have commitment issues, they don't understand it's a genuine fear. I can't even bring myself to say the words 'love' out loud, it makes me feel so exposed even though the walls are closing in

"Without commitment, you cannot have depth in anything, whether it's a relationship, a business or a hobby." ― Neil Strauss, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

"Without commitment, you cannot have depth in anything, whether it's a relationship, a business or a hobby." ― Neil Strauss, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

Lose the fear, gain your life...you've survived all that's happened to you so far and you will get past anything difficult that happened recently,  but commit to yourself this time, you will thrive because you're choosing to move forward without fear of the past...#nofear, #bealive, #thrivenow!

Lose the fear, gain your life...you've survived all that's happened to you so far and you will get past anything difficult that happened recently, but commit to yourself this time, you will thrive because you're choosing to move forward without fear of the past...#nofear, #bealive, #thrivenow!

It is life-altering! "The Real Commitment” || Written by Akif Kichloo

It is life-altering! "The Real Commitment” || Written by Akif Kichloo

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Cecelia Ahern - "Truth is, something that I thought was perfect was taken away from me, and I never...". relationships, disappointment, love, risks, cecelia-ahern, fear-of-commitment, the-time-of-my-life

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