Your right to paternal testing must be fought for. They are not only the men’s rights, they are children’s rights to know who their biological father is so they can have attachment, influence and a relationship with both of their biological parents.
#Children are not possessions. You don't "allow" the father/mother extra time. When you say things like that you imply that you think of your children as things, not humans.....I wish Steve's ex wife would understand this... I get it with my kids. It's easier to be flexible...easier for the kids and makes the kids happy and that's what matters most.