When my smile came back..I really liked it. I won't hear more until tomorrow. I think he's trying to pull - you know strings of control or something- scare me- just get through it like everything else. Legally they live with me and he's in the wrong. I know where they are for sure. If it's more than a day or two I shall go get them. He's not driving that far with them again I've told him that I will fly them in future and I was assertive and calm on the phone with him.