Helping is doing something for someone that he is not capable of doing himself. Enabling is doing for someone things that he could and should be doing himself. #enabling #quotes

Helping is doing something for someone that he is not capable of doing himself. Enabling is doing for someone things that he could and should be doing himself.

Teach people how you want to be treated.  You can stand up for yourself without being confrontational.

Teach people how you want to be treated. You can stand up for yourself without being confrontational. It's called setting boundaries.

You may not be able to control someone's negative behaviour but you can control how long you participate in it♡

You may not be able to control someones negative behavior, but you can control how long you participate in it.

Nobody likes conflict, but sweeping issues under the rug ultimately causes more damage than addressing things directly.

If You Think Something’s Not Right, Just Ask

Nobody likes conflict, but sweeping issues under the rug ultimately causes more damage than addressing things directly. I need to read this everyday!

You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm. »» {body positive image quotes}

'You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm' boundaries NO MORE POWER to please others for their control.

Important reminder. We're not doing ourselves or anyone else a favor when we don't hold people accountable for their actions. Hard, hard lesson to learn.

The more chances you give the less they respect you. They get comfortable with depending on your forgiveness. Never let a person get comfortable disrespecting you.

What you allow is what you'll get.our love was not worth you standing up for.101

I stopped enabling and I don't give my permission to the storm of her Narcissism to come into my life anymore. I don't accept invitations for arguments or listen to tall tales, lies, or self pity anymore.

What you allow is what will continue.                              …

There is no virtue in tolerating toxic behavior. PhilNot a fan of Dr Phil but this is useful.

"Open your eyes... and your soul... then you will be able to see the truth... it's right there... in-front of you... you just can't see yet... until you blink and focus..." JL :)

The Narcissists enablers/"flying monkeys" are blind to the truth and choose to remain so. They are also blind to the fact that they are being used/manipulated by the Narcissist.

3,680 Likes, 110 Comments - Cici.B (@thecrimsonkiss) on Instagram: “It's 2017, and yet... there are still some dudes out here, who TRULY believe, that a woman who has…”

3,680 Likes, 110 Comments - Cici.B (@thecrimsonkiss) on Instagram: “It's 2017, and yet... there are still some dudes out here, who TRULY believe, that a woman who has…”

Boom! There is a difference in helping someone to stand on their own with responsibilities in life and enabling them to abuse and stand on you.

Oh, yeah, the parent who continually sabotages their child, so even as an adult, the child is infantilised and kept dependant on the parent. Even laundering your own underwear is a threat. Lisa A. Romano ACoA Life Coach: ACoA Quotes To Live By

you are just a family of enablers allowing the monster you feed to go after one victim after another

Best thing I ever did is walk away from the constant drama. Can't believe how much truth this speaks, I've always been made to be he monster when the one spewing the hate and lies.

"Do not let someone's irresponsibility become your responsibility."  -Sharon…

So incredibly proud of myself.I have paid in benefits dentist appointments and prescriptions in one year.And paid back the government 733 of the money I owe them.Feeling like a great person.I can look back and say people were wrong about me.

If someone never receives a consequence for there actions what is to say they won't do it again and. Again and again !!!!!!!

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This administration gets away with their unlawful actions because they can.the Republicans either don't have the will to fight them and/or they are a part of the problem.

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