I will protect myself and in turn my children. But how do you do this in a legal system that that accepts accusations based on fiction with no evidence and refuses to acknowledge factual evidence based defence. The law has me shackled
we encourage our children to be loving and close to each other. In narcissistic families, children are pitted against each other and taught competition. There is a constant comparison of who is doing better and who is not.
7 signs of the Narcissist Hypocrite and the people they prey on. -you get duped into thinking you are overreacting or that you are the one causing the problems - this is classic narcissistic abuse. This is exactly the way the abuser wants you to feel.
It is well established that the "martyred mother" in a dysfunctional family is the one controlling and manipulating the entire family. When you hear something like, "I tried to be a good mother, but." you know the martyr is on stage manipulating.