Onism (n) the frustration of being stuck in just one body, that inhabits only one place at a time. This list of words is my life and I'm so glad someone decided to give a word to each of these emotions.
Neediness and dependence are draining, to all involved. If you can take more responsibility for yourself, and your actions, you can grow stronger. You will 'need' less, because you are providing the solutions by yourself.